Hari ibimenyetso ubona nawe ubwawe ukabona ko uwo mubana muri mu nzira zo gutandukana nk’uko tugiye kubigarukaho. Iyo wamaze kumenya ko mushobora kuba mugiye gutandukana ni na bwo ubasha kumenya icyo gukora ukazahura urugo rwawe kuko gutandukana n’uwo mwashakanye muhanye gatanya ni kimwe mu bintu bigora. ESE NI IBIHE BIMENYETSO BIZAKWEREKA KO URUGO RWANYU RURI […]
Burya kugira ngo urukundo rukomeze rutohe ruruheho kuryoha bituruka ku bintu byinshi birimo n’amagambo abakundana babwirana. Menya amagambo akwiriye wabwira umukunzi wawe ubinyujije mu butumwa bugufi bikamushimisha cyane. Koherereza amagambo meza umukunzi wawe ukoresheje ubutumwa bugufi ni ikintu cy’ingenzi cyane ku buryo utazatekereza no kwicuza mu buzima bwawe. Dore imitoma irenze 12 ubwira umukunzi wawe […]
Umugore mwiza ni isoko y’ibyishimo n’amahoro ku mugabo we. Iyo umugabo rubanda rumubona nk’igitangaza ariko umugore we akaba amusuzugura uwo mugabo yumva kuba rubanda rumwubaha ariko akaba atubashywe n’umugore we ntacyo bimaze. Mu rwego rwo kwirinda aka gasuzuguro kimwe mu byo wakora ni ukurongora umugore usumba kuko we abona agaciro kawe kuri buri ngingo. 1. […]
Kenshi iyo umugabo n’umugore babana , kugirango urugo rukomere biba bisaba ko bizerana, ndetse iyo bizerana biba bigaragaza ikimenyetso cy’urukundo. Dore rero bimwe mu bintu umugore ugukunda adashobora gukora. Kugukontorora : Iyo umugore agukunda kandi akwizera ntabwo ajya yita ku kugenzura mu byo ukora byose, arakureka ugakora icyo ushaka ndetse ukajya aho ushaka , yewe […]
Mu buzima busanzwe abantu bagira amabanga menshi utapfa gutahua, ndetse n’abantu bakundana nabo ubwabo bagira amabanga adasanzwe bahishanya, rero niyo mpamvu hari ibintu umukobwa ashobora kukubwira ugahita umenya ko agukunda by’ukuri. Amateka y’umuryango w’iwabo : Biragoye cyanye kubona umukobwa yicarana n’umusore ubundi akamuganiriza ku mateka y’abantu bagize umuryango wabo, rero niyo mpamvu iyo umukobwa yafashe […]
Abagabo benshi bagorwa kandi bagahangayikishwa no kuba barangiza vuba igihe cy’imibonano dore ko bishobora no guteza umubano mubi mu rugo cyangwa mu rukundo rw’umusore n’umukobwa. N’ubwo kurangiza vuba bivurwa bitewe n’icyabizanye, hari imyitozo 2 yizewe kandi ikora kuri benshi ifasha umugabo kutarangiza vuba. Niba nawe ufite iki kibazo, yigerageze nibyanga uzabone gushaka ubundi buryo. Iyo […]
Abakobwa benshi bisanga baryamanye n’umusore nyamara bo batari babifite muri gahunda ndetse bumva bifuzaga kuzaryamana n’uwo bazashakana gusa bitewe no kutita ku tuntu duto duto tugiye kubabwira. Niba utifuza kuryamana n’umusore ugomba kwitondera ibi bikurikira: 1. Ntukwiye kuvuga gusa ngo ntushaka gukora imibonano n’umusore ahubwo bishyire mu bikorwa. Hari abakobwa bumva ko batazigera bakora imibonano […]
Abasore benshi bakunda gusaba abakobwa ko baryamana ariko ugasanga binubira ko abakobwa babima nyamara wareba neza ugasanga biterwa n’uburyo baba babasbyemo. Hari abasore bakora ikosa ryo gusaba umukobwa bakundana ko bakora imibonano ari uko batangiye gupanga ubukwe bibwira ko ari bwo bari bubahe byoroshye nyamara iyo usabye umukobwa mutangiye gupanga ubukwe ahita yumva ko ushaka […]
Niba uri umusore cyangwa umugabo ukaba utera akabariro ariko umukunzi wawe ntazane amazi kandi ubishaka, iyi nkuru irakureba. Ushobora gusanga hari amakosa ukora akaba ari yo atuma umugore cyangwa umukunzi wawe atayazana. Amwe muri aya makosa abagabo bakunze gukora ni aya: Ni ba waragerageje kuzanisha amazi umugore wawe ukoresheje igitsina gusa bikanga ukwiye no kugerageza […]
Abantu bamwe bajya bagira intege nke mu rukundo bagatangira guca inyuma abo bakundana cyangwa bashakanye. Akenshi rero hari imyitwarire ugira akaba yakuvumbura utamaze kabiri ariko hari n’abamenya kugira amacenga ku buryo utapfa kumutahura. Abenshi babikora bagamije gusigasira umubano wabo n’abakunzi babo kuko hari ubwo aba amuca inyuma ariko atifuza kumubura, bigatuma yirinda icyatuma amuvumbura. Dore […]
Nkuko abakunzi bacu bakomeje kutwandikira badusaba ko twazabereka uburyo umugabo yakoramo imibonano mpuzabitsina maze umugore we akanezerwa,twubahirije ibyifuzo byanyu tubahitiramo uburyo 5 bwiza wayikoramo,ariko niba uziko uri munsi y’imyaka 18 ubu buryo ntabwo bukureba. Urebye ahanini ingo zo muri ibi bihe zisigaye zisenywa nuko umugore yaciye inyuma umugabo we ngo agiye gushaka umukorera imibonano mpuzabitsina […]
Kunyaza umugore ni kimwe mu bituma arushaho kuruhuka no kugubwa neza mu gihe afite we n’umugabo we bafite umwanya uhagije, gusa n’iyo umwanya ari muto ushobora gukora icyo gikorwa ukurikije bimwe mu bikubiye muri iyi nkuru. Ibyitwa kunyaza mu mibonamo mpuzabitsina biba igihe umugore yishimye cyane cyangwa se atanishimye gusa akumva ko ashaka kuyasohora. Ntabwo […]
Musore, menya bamwe mu bakobwa ugomba kwirinda kuryamana nabo kuko bashobora kukwangiriza ubuzima. Niba ibi bikurikira ubizi cyangwa ukaba wabibonye ku mukobwa ntuzigere wibeshya ngo uryamane nawe kuko ushobora guhuriramo n’ibibazo byinshi, ubuzima bwawe bwose bukajya mu kaga kubera uwo mukobwa. Gutera akabariro igihe cyose utarashaka ugomba kubyirinda ariko niba kwirinda bikunaniye, toranya umukobwa ukwiye. […]
Ubwo nari mu nzira nerekeza kuri gare ya Kabuga ngomba gutaha mu Gatsata, nibwo haguye imvura nyinshi. Imvura yaguye mu masaha mabi y’umugoroba kandi amafaranga nari mfite rwose yari make, narugamye ariko ku rubaraza nari nugamyeho hari umumotari na we wari uhari. Imvura yakomeje kugwa, ku buryo twamaze nk’amasaga arenga abiri tuganira byinshi, ni umusore […]
Urukundo ruba rwiza hagati ya babiri iyo bakundana by’ukuri ndetse bizerana kandi batabeshyanya,gusa biba bibi iyo hari umwe mu bakundana ubeshya mugenzi we,ntamubwize ukuri, iyo bimeze gutyo, biba birutwa no kutajya mu rukundo. Nubwo bimeze gutyo ariko hari bamwe batazi uko watahura umuntu ukubeshya ko agukunda kandi akuryarya. Muri iyi nkuru rero tugiye kuvuga ku […]
Ubundi abantu benshi bakundana ndetse banabana bakunze kuba mu rujijo niba koko umwe muri bo hari uca inyuma undi,Niyo mpamvu rero natwe twabahitiyemo ibi bimenyetso 6 bishobora kugufasha kumenya niba koko umukunzi wawe aguca inyuma. 1. Atangira kuba umunyebanga/Itondere telephone ye: Niba umukunzi wawe atangiye guha agaciro gakomeye telephone ye,uzamenye ko hari ikintu cyihishe inyuma. […]
Burya buri wese hari ibyo agenderaho yemeza ko akunzwe cyangwa ko bakina umutima we nk’abakina agapira, gusa humuka amaso wumva ibi bimenyetso. Abasore benshi bavuga ko bibagora kumenya abakobwa babakunda by’ukuri bitewe n’ibyiyumviro n’amarangamutima baterwa n’urukundo, ibyo bikaba byatuma babaca mu rihumye bakababeshya urukundo bagenzwa n’ibindi.Dore ibyo bimenyetso byatuma umuvumbura ko akubeshya: 1. Kuguhisha gahunda […]
Nyuma y’uko byakunze kugaragazwa ko abagabo bagira impinduka mu mubiri wabo binyuze mu kwitegereza, gukora kuri bimwe mu bice bigize umubiri w’abagore, havuzwe no ku bibero byabo. Abagore ni intege nke z’abagabo iyo bakuruwe n’imiterere yabo, gusa bikaba icyaha cyangwa ishyano igihe abagabo bakoze cyangwa bagerageje kwegera abagore mu buryo batemerewe cyangwa bagaragaza umuco w’ubuhehesi. […]
Umugore aho ava akagera mu rugo rwe acyenera ibi bintu 5 by’ingenzi ku mugabo we, igihe atabibona bishobora kugira ingaruka zitari nziza cyane nko guca inyuma uwo bashakanye atari uko amwanze ahubwo agiye gushakira ahandi ibyo yaburiye mu rugo rwe. Kuba umugore aca inyuma umugabo we akenshi bituruka ku myitwarire y’umugabo we no kuba hari […]
Menya zimwe mu mpamvu abantu bakundanye igihe kirekire birangira batabanye n’ababana bakaba ari bake ugereranyije n’umubare munini w’abakundana igihe ariko bikarangira batandukanye. Ni kenshi hagaragara ‘Couple’ zakundanye igihe kirekire kuburyo abantu bose baba biteze ko bazarushinga cyangwa se banibaza impamvu batarushinga kandi barambanye, gusa bakazatungurwa no kubona bahise batandukana. Ibi rero bifite impamvu nyinshi zibitera […]
Bamwe bahita barusenya abandi bakavuga ibyo batakagombye kuvuga mu rukundo rushya binjiyemo, nyamara bakirengagiza ko hari ibyo bakwiye kureka kuvuga. Urukundo rushya abenshi ntibaba bagasobanukirwa byinshi ku bakunzi bashya, amagambo yabo akabateranya rugikubita. Dore ibintu bikwiye kuguhindukira ibanga mu matwi y’umukunzi mushya. 1. Kuvuga ibyiza by’uwo mwatandukanye Bamwe bajya mu nkundo bavuye mu zindi zababaje […]
Ndahiriwe Grace Serukiza umwe mu baririmbyi bakomeye ba Alarm Ministries, akaba umwana wo mu batambyi dore ko se ari Apotre Serukiza Sosthene, agiye kurushinga n’umusore bamaze imyaka 6 bakundana. Grace Serukiza ni umwana w’imfura wa Apotre Serukiza Sosthene Umushumba Mukuru w’itorero ‘Eglise Messianique pour la guerison des ames au Rwanda’ rikorera mu Bugesera. Avukana n’abana […]
Iyi nkuru uyisome niba wifuza gusobanukirwa iby’urukundo. 1. ugomba kwirinda umubano ushingiye ku mibona1no mpuzabitsi1na gusa, kuko ntabwo uwo mubano uramba , niba ibyo ukora byose ari ukuryamana aho kuba mwaganira ku bintu bizabagirira akamaro ku buzima bwanyu bwejo hazaza urwo rukundo ni uguta umwanya. 2. Irinde umubano uwo ari wo wose udafite icyerekezo cyangwa […]
Ni ay’urukundo! Burya koko ngo urukundo rugira ibyarwo kandi rukora ibyo rushatse. Uru nirwo rwatumye Mukamana Christine w’imyaka 29 wari umubikira yiyambura ivara akisangira umusore Ndayishimiye Fabrice wari umushumba w’inka ngo babane akaramata. Niba wibuka neza muri Bibiliya batubwira abagabo nka Dawidi, Sawuli, Samson n’abandi benshi bagiye batamazwa n’urukundo rugatuma bakora ibyo batateguye. Umwanditsi w’ibitabo […]
Urukundo ni ibyiyumvo biza mu muntu bikamutera kumva ko agomba kugira undi muntu yitaho bakagirana imishyikirano n’umubano byimbitse. Ibi bituma aba bombi basangira twose, bakabwirana twose mbese bakisanzuranaho mu buryo bisa n’ibyikoze. Kugira ngo urukundo rukomere, bisaba ko mutagira ibyo muhishana, kutishishanya no kubahana. Mu rukundo rero burya uko uba hafi y’uwo ukunda mukaganira mukamenyana […]
Bamwe bavuga ko ugukunda bya nyabyo akwandikira akaguhamagara kenshi ndetse agatanga imbaraga ze zose kugira ngo akugume iruhande, nyamara ibyo ntibihagije ngo byubake urukundo n’umubano udasaza. Impuguke mu bumenyamuntu basobanukiwe n’imitekerereze y’ikiremwamuntu batangaje ibimenyetso bikomeye bigaragaza ko umukobwa agukunda urukundo rutari urw’agahararo. Dore ibyo bimenyetso: 1. Impuhwe Impuhwe zawe burya zigana kuwo ukunda kuko wifuza […]
Sabine Mutabazi uri mu bakobwa bahabwaga amahirwe yo kwegukana Miss Rwanda 2022 ubu usigaye uba muri Canada yatomagije umukunzi we uba muri Leta Zunze Ubumwe z’Amerika bamaze igihe bakundana. Inkuru y’urukundo rwa Sabine Mutabazi yatangiye kugarukwaho muri Mutarama 2023 icyo gihe aba bombi bari bahererekanije ku mbuga amagambo aryohereye. Kuri uyu wa 31 Gicurasi 2024 […]
Gukunda no gukundwa ni ibintu byizana, kandi ntawe bitabaho muri iyisi dutuyeho, yaba ashaje cyangwa ari muto. Gusa ikigora ni ukumenya ugukunda koko bya nyabyo….Bityo hano twabahitiyemo bimwe mu bimenyetso bigera ku 10 bizereka umuhungu umukobwa wamukunze. 1. Inseko Umukobwa yagukunze ntiyifuza kukubona ubabaye narimwe, bityo bigatuma yumva yakubwira amagambo agushimisha, kugira ngo akubone useka. […]
Hari ibimenyetso by’ingenzi ushobora kureberaho umusore mukundana ukamenya ko nta gahunda afite yo kuzabana nawe nubwo mwaba mumaranye igihe kinini mukundana ndetse ubona akwereka urukundo rukwiye ariko rukaba nta musaruro ruzagira bigasa no kugutesha igihe gusa. 1. Ntiyemera ko imiryango imenya ko mukundana Uretse kuba atabyereka inshuti ze, n’imiryango yanyu ntashobora kwemera ko imenya ibyanyu […]
Abagikundana baba bafite urukundo rugurumana mu mitima yabo nyamara bamwe rukazima nk’amashara mu gihe gito bigatuma bamwe bibabaza impamvu badahiriwe narwo mu gihe abandi basazanye. Hari impamvu zikomye zishobora gutuma urukundo ruzima mu kanya gato. Abantu benshi bavuga ko hari ibintu bikunze gusenya urukundo birimo nko kwisanzura mu gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina, akamenyero ko guhorana mudatana […]